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  • Busted! Dr. Stephen Doyne: Former Clients Expose His Failure as a Custody Evaluator
    “Kill All the Lawyers” — William Shakespeare, Henry VI, Part 2, Act IV, Scene 2 The widespread condemnation of one San Diego custody evaluator probably won’t end until he’s dead.  Hopefully sooner rather than later. Poor man. He’s been proven to have falsified his resume, performed work for San Diego family courts without qualifications, defrauded clients by […]
  • The Science of Good Parenting
    There are thousands of books about how to raise a happy, successful child.  But under scrutiny it becomes obvious that almost all of these books are based on “conventional wisdom”–wives’ tales, folklore, cultural norms, and family tradition.  Yet, what is that worth? Just because your parents raised you a certain way doesn’t mean it was […] The post The Scie […]
  • “Best Interests of the Child”–Fact or Lyrical Poetry? Family Court Professionals Disclose the Truth
    Let’s swim to the moon, uh huh Let’s climb through the tide Penetrate the evenin’ that the City sleeps to hide Let’s swim out tonight, love It’s our turn to try Parked beside the ocean On our moonlight drive** Confused about what “best interests of the child” means?  You’re not alone.  So are judges, attorneys, and especially psychologists.  At AFCC’s 2006 n […]
  • Busted! Divorce Attorney Slides Into Oblivion–The Tragic End of a Crooked Lawyer: Marilyn Bierer, San Diego Divorce Lawyer
    Her clients’ reviews are the story of her demise: “Marilyn Bierer is an abusive alcoholic who charged a fortune and yelled at me constantly,” says former client “J.W.”; “Dishonest, hotheaded, and unethical,” says one San Diego mom who paid her tens of thousands of dollars and got creamed.  “Marilyn Bierer and Associates not only got […] The post Busted! Divo […]
  • A Poem: I Am An American
    I Am an American   They say I’m humble, ‘most to a fault. I’m an American. I think of giving without a thought. I’m an American. I drive a pickup in a parade. Honor promises not often made. My favorite drive through sells only lemonade. I am an American. There’s a ballpark in my front […] The post A Poem: I Am An American appeared first on Weightier Matter. […]
  • California Coalition Teams with Families Civil Liberties Union, Florida Family Coalition, and Other Groups Nationwide to Save Taxpayer Dollars by De-Funding OVW Grants
    March 23, 2017–San Diego, CA; New York, NY; Sarasota, FL–California Coalition for Families and Children, PBC announces today it is expanding its partnership with nationwide coalitions including the Families Civil Liberties Union and the Florida Family and Children Constitutional Coalition to lobby incoming Attorney General Jeff Sessions to de-fund federal gr […]
  • Family Civil Rights Coalitions Deliver Letter to HHS Secretary Price Suggesting Taxpayer Savings by De-Funding of Title IV-D
    March 22, 2017–New York, NY, San Diego, CA, Sarasota, FL–Today Families Civil Liberties Union, New York Chapter, California Coalition for Families and Children, PBC, and the Florida Family and Children Constitutional Coalition, Inc. in announcing delivery of a letter to the incoming Secretary of the United States Health and Human Services Department, Dr. Tho […]
  • New Video: Domestic Dispute Industry Increasingly Wary of the Destructiveness of Custody Evaluations
      Up To Parents (www.uptoparents.org) has released a new series of four short, free YouTube videos explaining why custody evaluations almost never help parents achieve their child’s best interests, are frequently highly destructive–even deadly–and always cost far more than they’re worth.  Charlie Asher, JD, founded Up To  Parents to empower parental autonomy […]
  • Is There A “Good Divorce” for Kids? Child Custody Researchers Debate the Research: “It’s a Myth”
    They say opinions are like … never mind.   And everyone of course has a favorite opinion or two about child custody.  Yet regardless of whose … opinion … you prefer, in Family Court every custody evaluator, lawyer, judge, and litigant’s opinion seems to be different.  Dad’s rights groups and pro-“friendly parent” organizations such as AFCC may […] The post I […]
  • Four Legendary Experts Discuss the Nature, Causes, and Effects of Domestic Violence
    Is conventional wisdom about domestic violence accurate?  What are its causes, and how can it be prevented?  Below we provide edited versions of four remarkable interviews between four legendary experts in the field, Erin Prizzey, Dr. Martin Fiebert, Professor Donald Dutton, and research pioneer Dr. Murray Straus.  These researchers discuss their decades of […]

CCFC Opens Its RICO Pleadings Filing Cabinet for Litigants, Professionals

November 29, 2013–California Coalition for Families and Children announces opening its Family Court RICO Pleading File for use by parents, children, family court litigants, and professionals.

CCFC will maintain an open file containing pleadings, research, exhibits, and other resources for use by parents, children, families, litigants, and professionals seeking to initiate litigation in jurisdictions across the United States.  “The menace we’re combating is nationwide” Says Colbern Stuart, President of California Coalition.  “The Divorce Industry has quietly infiltrated state and federal legal, professional, and governmental institutions in all fifty states and continues unabated.  Unfortunately those empowered to stop its advance elsewhere have shown a lack of willpower, knowledge, or courage to enforce the law. The file cabinet contains legal analysis that shows how the industry works, why it is illegal, and how to combat it.  These are tools that can be copied and adapted for use in many local jurisdictions.”  Says Stuart.  The Coalition has filed its complaint in federal court in San Diego, CA, but because it is based on federal civil rights and trade and commerce laws, the analysis is applicable throughout the United States.  “After today, more vicitims will be empowered to act, and those already empowered to act but who are failing to do so will have one less excuse for not doing their job.”   Says Stuart.  “After today, there’s no more ‘ignorance of the law’ excuses for state officials.  Pay them now, or pay them later, but the bills for years of neglect, fraud, and abuse is coming your way very soon.”

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CCFC Announces Latest Round of Salvos in DDICE RICO Litigation: CCFC Files Motion for Sanctions Against Judges

November 30, 2013, San Diego, CA–Today CCFC filed

a motion for sanctions against the San Diego County Superior Court, Judge Robert J. Trentacosta, Mr. Michael M. Roddy, Judge Lisa Schall, Judge Lorna A. Alksne, Judge Christine K. Goldsmith, Commissioner Jeannie Lowe, Judge William H. McAdam, Jr., Commissioner Edlene C. McKenzie, and Judge Joel R. Wohlfeil.  

Weightier Matter, our news and litigant resource, carries the motion, pleading file, research, analysis, and more. Join us there!


Before/After Poll: What Was Your Impression of Your Custody Evaluator?

Your Opinion Matters to Us!

At CCFC we’re always seeking feedback from parents to pass along to the divorce industry and courts.  We’ve prepared a brief poll seeking parent input about your impression of child custody evaluators before and after you hired them.  If your divorce involved a paid child custody evaluator, what was your impression before and after your experience?  Your answers are anonymous, so please feel free to comment as well as respond with as many choices as are true for you. Instructions: Pick as many answers as apply, or add your own to “Other.”  There is no right/wrong answer–we’re only interested in your subjective impressions. THANK YOU!

Results will be posted in two weeks.  Visit CCFC online at our Facebook Page: http://www.facebook.com/ccfconline

Thank you!

Yelp, or Gulp? Yelp’s “Recommended” Reviews–Why Knowing What Reviews Aren’t “Recommended” is More Telling than the Reviews that Are

Yelp's Cover for Stehen Doyne's "Recommended" Reviews--what's "not recommended" turns out to be more telling that what is...

Yelp’s Cover for Stehen Doyne’s “Recommended” Reviews–what’s “not recommended” turns out to be more telling that what is

The Power, and Unforeseen Truth, of the Internet

Say these words ten years ago and what would the reaction be?

“Google it”

“He’s a Blogger”

“It’s good Netizenship”

“I heard on Twitter”

Today, those words are not only universally understood, the listener knows that whatever is about to follow the phrase is so important that millions have already tuned in.

And one word that’s achieving that level of authority—Yelp.  There are many recent articles on Yelp’s content, star ratings, features, and the effect it can have on a business, but few have probed the boundary lines that Yelp itself imposes on reviews.  Yelp describes the goal of “filtering” reviews–to make the published reviews that go into its “star” rating more reliable by filtering out “unreliable” reviews.  Yelp itself explains its own policies in a simple video below.  We suggest viewing it before proceeding with this article.

We’ve experimented with this new “recommended” policy and here share what we’ve learned.  It’s very revealing, but not revealing in the way Yelp probably intended.  The reviews Yelp’s software filters as “recommended” may, or may not, be in fact more reliable.  But it turns out that Yelp’s policy about deleting, or hiding certain reviews as “not recommended’ speaks volumes more.

We’ve posted information regarding several family court professionals who we’ve become familiar with, both from personal experiences and by learning from the experience of others.   Yelp’s reaction has been insightful not only about our reivews, but about the others it “removes” to “not recommended.”  In other words, Yelp promotes, or “yelps,” some reviews, and swallows, or “gulps” others.

Take, for instance, Dr. Stephen Doyne—the notorious “Dean” of the San Diego Family Law industry.  If you’ve viewed our site before you know that CCFC has filed a lawsuit in United States District Court in the Southern District of California accusing Doyne, among many others of his family court colleagues, of criminal racketeering, fraud, and abuse of his family court clients.   Our parent members have been vocal about Doyne and several others across the Internet—both good experiences and unfortunately many bad ones.   Our parents have been eager to share those experiences with others who, like we were at one point—enter family court thinking it behaves like any other professional services industry—regulated by laws and professional standards.

What we learned is that family court psychologists, attorneys, and judges are not subject to ordinary professional oversight and regulation—they’s entirely virtually free from oversight by appellate courts, civil courts, professional ethics boards and disciplinary committees.  We’ve written letters, reports, complaints, and campaigned to every authority with potential jurisdiction over the industry, and virtually all have taken a “hands off” attitude toward family court operations and professionals.  “Family Court is a closed society” they respond.  “If you have a problem, take it up with the judge.”

We learned, far to late for some, that most of the assumptions that parents carry into family court are simply very, very naive.  As a result of the lack of oversight, professionals such as Doyne and others are free to extort, defraud, and abuse parents and children once they become trapped in the family court system.  Your attorneys?  Well aware of this trap, yet fail to warn you–in some cases even lead you into it, then blame you once ensnared.

And the judges who oversee it?  Willfully ignorant to the abuse, which is not only permitted, but encouraged.

Hence our lawsuit, but that’s a different story.

One venue we attempted to use to explain the fraud and abuse parents face in hiring family court professionals was Yelp.  Many sites such as CitySearch, local news agencies such as Channel 10 and The Reader, and private boards such as “The Public Court” or “FixFamilyCourts” and “Angiemedia” have articles and discussion boards gathering opinions, but Yelp has, by far, the most sophisticated standards for choosing which reviews are “recommended” and which are not.

Here’s what our experience shows.

Yelp does not like reports of lawsuit activity.  We posted the following review on Yelp (Click through-images to enlarge):

CCFC's Review of Doyne Alerting Parents to the Fraud Trap and Racketeering Lawsuit

CCFC’s Initial Alert to Family Court Litigants of the Racketeering Lawsuit and Doyne’s Fraud

Within 48 hours Yelp “‘gulped”, and replaced it with this:

Yelp's "Takedown" of the Doyne Review

Yelp GulpsCCFC’s Alert

We thought the review was important enough to keep up, and re-posted it, with the following alert to Yelp about exactly what we were doing (Click to enlarge):

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CCFC Repeats It’s Alert

This review stayed up long enough to attract about sixty “votes” from users rating is “helpful” “cool” or “funny”—clearly Yelp’s users liked it.  Yelp, did not.  Within days Yelp again removed the post, and even sent an email stating the post didn’t conform to the terms of services.  We looked at Yelp’s terms and no where did we see anything identified as objectionable content.  We asked Yelp to explain, they declined.

Today, when you navigate to Yelp’s page for Stephen Doyne, you’ll find this (click to enlarge):

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Doyne’s Current Reviews–Uniformly Negative

Still all bad reviews, but what’s even more telling is what Yelp filtered out.  Navigate deeper to the gulped  “not recommended” links and you’ll find more—much more… (click to enlarge)

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Yelp Spotted The “Suspicious” Self-Reviews and “Gulped” Them–No Longer Counted in Doyne’s “Star” Rating, but Still Available to Mislead Clients

The “Cole S.” reviews about the CCFC lawsuit are gulped—for violating content terms and restrictions–presumably Yelp thinks we’re “ranting”.  While we disagreed about my post about a lawsuit by Doyne’s former clients violating Yelp’s terms of service, but we were also curious about why the five positive reviews were also filtered out—surely they couldn’t be accused of “ranting” or “repeat negative reviews”—what’s up with the filtering of positive reviews?

Simple—according to Yelp’s video (see above link), their software identifies reviews that are “suspicious”—“suspicious” positive reviews include almost exclusively reviews with a “conflict of interest”—in other words, reviews by the business itself, or entities the business has paid to review it.  In other words—DOYNE IS POSTING POSITIVE REVIEWS ABOUT HISMSELF ONLINE.

See it for yourself–Yelp’s software has identified the “positive” reviews about Doyne to be, in fact, by Doyne.  And his self-promotion isn’t limited to Yelp–the same deceptive reviews also appear prominently in CitySearch’s results–CitySearch’s filters aren’t as sophisticated as Yelp, meaning the fraud identified by Yelp is continuing to deceive consumers at CitySearch (click to enlarge):

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Doyne Repeats His Fraud At CitySearch’s Less Intelligent Site

It gets better.  We tested the theory with another family court warrior–Marilyn Bierer.  As you can see below, Marilyn Bierer is also deep into the business of self-promotion.

Our review of Bierer (click to enlarge):

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CCFC Alerts Family Court Clients of the Racketeering Lawsuit Against Bierer

Yelp gulped it.  But what else appears as “not recommended”?

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Yelp Also Deletes these “positive” Reviews–What Were They?

In other words, according to Yelp, the two reviews of Bierer from “Steve B” are reviews by Marilyn Bierer or her “conflict-of-interest” colleagues.   I took a capture of the reviews when they were still posted. Here is Steve B.:

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Yelp Detected “Steve B.’s” (Bierer’s Own Self-Promotion) and Deleted It.  Fraud, or Attempted Fraud?

Very flattering–if she might, and did, say so herself.

Now why is that important? If you’re a coffee shop trying to drum up business in a new neighborhood, shame on you, but you’re not breaking the law.  But for professionals such as psychologists and lawyers, it’s illegal to promote yourself in any deceptive way, its’ illegal to reveal client details, and its’ illegal to commit fraud on future clients.  To put it bluntly, Yelp’s “neutral software” has identified strong evidence that Stephen Doyne and Marilyn Bierer have committed fraud, on their clients, fraud on consumers, violated client trusts, and breached numerous ethical rules of their profession.    As bad as the evidence we’ve gathered against them already is, this could be the most damning.

Stay tuned as we use Yelp’s automated software review “gulper” to uncover other fraudulent “self-reviews” detected by others of our family court friends.

If you haven’t already closed the book on family court professionals’ attempt to pose as legitimate enterprises, here’s another reason to do so.  They will eagerly and flagrantly disregard rules of ethics, professional regulations, and law designed to protect you, in order to propagate their treachery harming your family, and possibly ruining your life.

Don’t make the same mistakes we did.  Avoid these frauds at all cost–or cost you it will.

Stay tuned—as our lawsuit unfolds we’ll be the first to report on the depth of the criminal enterprises operating in Family Court.

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The Man Who Bought My Wife (Lynn Stuart, Matt Horsley)

Lynn Stuart San Diego

Matt Horsley, Pure Financial Services, cheat on one family to buy someone else’s–golddigger Lynn Stuart and Matthew Horsley

Money Can’t By Me Love?

“I’ll buy you a diamond ring my friend
If it makes you feel all right 

I’ll get you anything my friend 
If it makes you feel all right 
Cause I don’t care too much for money 
For money can’t buy me love”

You see a lot in 20 years of marriage.  And hopefully learn a lot too.  But I never thought I’d yet to learn that love, some love, is a commodity that ripens, and is best sold before the buyer knows it’s already rotting.

My wife’s affair started with her co-worker while they were working together at San Diego’s Channel 5 Fox News station.  She was an on-air reporter and weekend anchor—he was a regular weekend “special guest” (aptly titled it turns out) on the weekend morning show.  My wife worked both Saturday and Sunday each weekend for about a year during which her then co-worker appeared regularly on the show.  Her weekend-anchor “on-air” time was limited to about two hours during her eight hour shift in the early morning hours.  She went to work at 4:00 a.m. and worked until about noon   Most of the eight hours she had “free” to develop stories, write text for the tele-prompter, and apparently, entertain the guests of the show.

Pure Financial Advisors–Capital Acquisition

The man who she now lives with was is a wealthy Senior Financial Planner Pure Financial Advisors in San Diego, California. He advises wealthy clients on retirement and estate planning, tax planning, and investments.  He’s worked with San Diego “wealth management” clients, trusts, and charitable organizations. He’s well-educated-with a degree from the University of Michigan, and serves as a director or officer of several local “family oriented” charitable organizations including the San Diego Center for Children.  A recent press release describes his wealthy client base and responsibility for the financial security of many San Diego families.  Judging from accounts of his various love affairs, he is apparently talented at using his affluence to persuade many toward financial security.  At least for a time.

I dated this guy right before and during this time. I was 22 and dumb. Just like only an older charismatic guy can do, he convinced me to cheat on my boyfriend in a weekend. He then flew me out to San Diego twice a month on the weekends for the weekend. We had a lot of fun at first. That was his thing, we would do this till it wasn’t fun anymore. He took me on a trip across the world for a couple weeks, took me to meet his parents in Michigan, boat trips, day trips…then it started to go south for no reason. One minute he was telling me how much he loved me, how he could see the two of us having a kid I’m the next couple years , then I assume he started in a lot heavier with this affair. Once when we went to a club he even made out with another girl in front of me, then still convinced me to sleep with him the same night and for many months into january. He totally broke my heart. And I had to find out this way. Sucks.

~ “B” on Horsley, from Shesahomewrecker.com

2007 Magazine Photo–Weeks After Lynn Stuart Filed for Divorce & Years Before Final. Matt Horsley Makes His Living Siphoning Other People’s Money–and Loved Ones. Lynn Stuart Makes Her Living, Well, Siphoning Matt Horsley

The signs (that I missed) that my wife was having an affair began in 2007 when she started coming home later and later from her weekend anchor shifts.  Her shift was over at noon, but she would often arrive home near dinnertime.  Since she was on TV, I could watch her in the mornings with our son—then four years old—from our living room.  “Look! Mommie’s on TV!”  Many times she was “on TV” with the regular “special guest” from Pure Financial.   Our son and I enjoyed playing together while we could watch Mommie “work.”

I didn’t suspect my wife of cheating until much later—after she filed for divorce and began living with her current boyfriend and former “special guest.”  As I think back, she would often explain that she was late because she had “extra work to do after the show.”  It was a valid excuse—news reporting is a hard-working career.  It requires long hours and odd shifts—you have to be “on” when the news is “on.”  She would often work fifteen or twenty hour days.  If someone calls in sick in a shift after you, you’re expected to cover.  It was normal, and I didn’t mind because I got to spend the time with our son, going for short hikes, to the zoo or playground, or just spending quality time together—father and son at home.   My wife and I had been together since High School—twenty years.  I didn’t suspect her of cheating for a single second.

Prepare Your Financial Future

Keith Slotter Rotary Club 2

Lynn Stuart Proudly Proclaims Her Skills of Deception as a Reporter: “I am able to put people at ease as I artfully pull out valuable information while transforming an interview into a conversation. Sheldon Adelson, CEO of the Venetian Hotel Casino, claimed I seduced him into saying derogatory and controversial comments about union workers in a taped interview. He demanded a second interview with his marketing team present, and once again made derogatory comments in the interview.”

She had been spending more and more time at work with her morning show because it was an advance in her career—her chance to move “up” to a permanent anchor position; the “plum” position.  Her night-time shifts were three days a week, weekend morning shows two days a week.  I recall that she more frequently began arriving home after midnight—several hours after her show ended.  I assumed it was simply her demanding career.  I had an early morning job and often couldn’t stay up, but noted—without suspicion—that she often crawled into bed after 1:00 a.m.

Things began to fall into place after my wife filed for divorce in June, 2007.   We had been going through a rough period, but for unusual reasons.  Throughout 2007 she would come home from work irritable—as if she had been having an argument with me before she arrived at home.  She would come in the door “ready to fight”—it was almost as if I had been with her in the car from her work involved in some struggle. She would launch in accusing me of “you said this” when I wasn’t even in the car.  She began finding fault with things that would never have bothered her before, and was often immediately hostile to me—even insulting me.  She had always been emotional—perhaps a bit more so than the “average” woman—and I assumed that she was just displacing frustrations she was having at work with me.  I’d normally let her blow off steam and hope she would settle down after she changed gears to home life’s more easy pace.

But in the summer of 2007 her “moods” became more permanent.  There seemed to be something really eating at her—as if she really wanted a fight.   I’d usually just duck and hope she got over it, but sometimes I’d tell her to lay off—that whatever was eating her wasn’t my fault.  One such time, without even a fight, when I reacted emotionally myself, telling her to “lay off” she dropped the bomb.   As calmly as if she were announcing enactment of a longstanding plan to change careers, she  said “That’s it, I’m getting a divorce.”

I was stunned—she had never talked about divorce. Not once.  I assumed she was just blowing off steam. I moved to another bedroom, gave her some “space”, but she was determined that she was leaving, repeating it for several weeks, and insisting on taking more “free time” for herself outside the home.  I hoped the space would give her time to reconsider.

Plan Ahead for Market Fluctuations

I was wrong.  She filed within a few weeks, served me with papers, and immediately moved out of our house leaving me and our son at home.

I realized she was already seeing someone regularly very soon after she moved out.  She would–rather glowingly—tell me “I’m going to the races with someone” or “I’m going out on a date tonight.”  We were separated, and I had little grounds to object, but it was clear she had become “into” someone right away.  I hoped it would be just a phase—a “rebound” and she’d come to her senses that breaking up our family over another guy was wrong.  Who would want to walk into a twenty year relationship and destroy a family? Even players know when they’re getting in too deep.

I was wrong again.  It hit me when one day I showed up to pick our son up from school as scheduled, and he wasn’t there.  His teachers said my ex-wife had arrived early and took our son home.   They didn’t know that our son’s home was with me—and that she was living separately without him.

I called her and she confirmed she took him to “live with people who love him”  Her parents had come into town and had helped her take him from school to her new home.

This began a new, less hopeful phase.  We began the usual custody legal wrangling, and the court apportioned custody between us.  My son began telling me about how mommie’s new friend “Matt” had a “new car” that “Mommie gets to drive”.  My (now) ex started showing up to custody drop-offs and pick-ups in a new $90,000 black Porsch 911-sales sticker still on the car.  She made at the time $35,000 a year.

Be Alert for Windfall Profits

As weeks went by my son regularly told me about Mommie’s new friend “Matt” and that they were going to see his parents, and lots of his friends.

I shared this story with my divorce attorney early in the divorce—I asked her if she thought my ex-wife had been having an affair.  She looked at me like I was an idiot and effectively said so.  “She’s been working with him for a year, coming home late, he buys her a car, and now she’s going to meet his parents.  What do you think?”

I suppose I was.  But I couldn’t bring myself to believe Lynn had been cheating before our separation.  My attorney suggested that the information might be useful in the divorce.  I wasn’t interested in a “messy” divorce—my ex’s career at a conservative news station–Fox—made her very vulnerable to any scuttlebutt of infidelity.  Even rumors would ruin her.

But I was curious to learn the truth.  My attorney suggested several ways of finding out—skip tracing, phone tapping, lots of “detective” type work, which I declined.  With another guy already in the picture who was willing to buy her an expensive car, paying her rent, and taking her on trips—things at the time I could not afford—I assumed the relationship was doomed.  I could not buy it back, and was quite sure I no longer wanted to.

I was, however, concerned about our son.  I wanted to know that he was safe with her, who this new guy was, and whether he was trustworthy.  His morality was already questionable.  My attorney suggested that I look at our home computer to see if I could find any files, email, photos, etc. that might lead to clues.  I considered it, and remembered that we shared passwords on our email accounts.  I had never used hers, and it had been so long since we opened the accounts I assumed she had changed the passwords.

I was wrong again.

I quickly logged into her account and found the usual stuff—friends, family, and poked around until I found some people I didn’t recognize.  Quite a few.  One of the most frequent friends was the man who was now her lover.

Diversify Your Bonds

What followed turned out to be some of the most painful moments in my life.  I read email after email from 2007—before our separation—between my wife and the man who was now, and had been for some time—her lover.  I could see the relationship develop.  At first strictly business, coordinating his appearances on her weekend news show, schedules, topics, times, etc.  He two or three times invited her out to company events.  This wasn’t unusual—she received many such invitations from many people.  Having a “TV News Personality” like my ex-wife at a company event with high net worth clients was a big deal.  Her “star appeal” was clearly an asset—she was well aware of it and often did “favors” for guests or friends by “dropping by” an event.  She reveled in the local stardom and attention.

The invitations included one or two night-time events-a dinner party or show.  They appeared to be “strictly business” events.   As far as I could tell, she had turned the night events down.

Until May, 2007, when I saw an email referencing confirmation to attend a show—the Jersey Boys—with a group of people.  I couldn’t tell the details, but it was clear it was a group event and she was attending as a “special guest” herself.  The group, and her host, was her former “special guest” and his business associates.  I checked my calendar for that date, and realized that she had been working nights during that period—it would not have been unusual for her to come home late—very late sometimes—on those nights.  But on this night at least she had not been working, or at least not in the way I had assumed.

She had never mentioned that she had attended a show instead of work.

Past Performance is Not a Predictor of Future Results

The emails took a different turn from there—far less formal, and far less detail.  Quick, flirty, “wassup baby!” type emails back and forth.  Friendly-flirty.  Nothing to alert anyone reading them at the time, but the context told me that there was much more then growing between the lines.  Perhaps I’m lucky–few people ever understand the how, why, and precisely when their ex- spouse fell out of love.

After our separation in July, 2007,  I found several between her and her best girlfriend about her “new guy”—she bragged that he was only 35, she was 40 at the time.  She told her friend he was “loaded,” bought her a new car, jewelry, and that they were planning to build a new home in Solana Beach near where we had lived together.  I don’t recall any mention of his personality, intelligence, physique, or looks, other than her comment that he was “five years younger than me!”  I also saw emails between her and her new lover talking about the home building project—within weeks of our separation, years before our divorce was final, they had already picked out an existing place for sale, bid on the home, and started plans to demolish and rebuild.  This was a plan my ex was well-familiar with as we had purchased an rebuilt a home ourselves.  It was her “dream” to live in a home that she had built from the ground up.  We worked hard to build that dream together.  She clearly wasn’t willing to give up all of that dream.

The details in the emails seemed to indicate they had been talking about it for some time—they echoed offline conversations with considerable details.

It was clear that she was calling the shots–She was giving direction about what to build where, how much to bid, when to meet, etc.  He appeared to be taking orders—a husbandly “yes dear” attitude.  It seemed to me that he, like many others who are awed by someone who’s on TV, was star-struck by her.

They Buy the Sizzle and Sell the Steak

I was floored.  I had given up hopes of repairing the marriage, and since we were separated, she technically wasn’t required to be faithful, but I had no idea that she was into a deep affair at the time of our separation.  As weeks went by my son innocently regaled me with more stories of their spending time together, going on trips to see parents and grandparents, spending holidays together, and the nice shiny new “fast car” Mommie was driving all the time now, as well as “Matt’s car”—the Porsche was now hers, and they used “Matt’s car”—a more family-friendly SUV–also.

My divorce attorney urged me to throw it at her in the custody battle.  I refused.  She was gone, and as long as my son was safe, I wasn’t concerned.  But as time went on, I became increasingly concerned about our son’s safety.

On one occasion he arrived at my and my son’s home with bruises on his wrist—as if someone had held his wrists too tightly.  I emailed my ex-wife about the bruises and she denied knowledge.  I photographed them and sent them to her. She had no explanation.   She would occasionally call me to coordinate contact with our son while she was clearly drunk.  Once I heard her threaten to spank him.  Our son was fearful when I returned him to her home.  Details of this period have been reported elsewhere.

Asset Class May Change Over Time

As time passed more details came out in the divorce, including that she and her lover began to live together as a couple shortly after the divorce was final.  They’re not married.  She lost her job as a reporter soon after our divorce and moved in with him. I could share more, but it’s too painful to detail again.

Am I blameless? Of course not. I’ve learned a lot about myself as well.  We could all do better.  Did I deserve it for marrying a Gold Digger? I don’t think so-it’s hard to tell if that scrawny, shy, freckle-faced 17 year old high school sweetheart you fall in love with will evolve into a June Cleaver or a Betty Broderick at 40.  Lynn Stuart is no June Cleaver. Young love may be innocent, but it’s also pretty dumb, and maybe so was I.

I was wrong, but I learned one thing for sure:

If money can’t buy you love, try a Porsche.

And from those twenty years of marriage to a commodity I barely knew, I can pass along my own financial advice for Mr. Horsley  (what is in a name?) and his trusting clients:

“I hope you kept the receipt.”


Matthew Horsley’s Past Investments, and Aiding and Abetting Others In Abandoning Their Own Assets:


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Custody Evaluator Stephen Doyne Fumbles Mediation


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Jeff Fritz Reveals Client Confidences of Lynn Stuart’s Child Abuse in Racketeering Case


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Details of Lynn Stuart’s Child Abuse, Substance Abuse Revealed in Mediation With Dr. Stephen Doyne


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Judges Seek Dismissal of Racketeering Lawsuit–CCFC Responds to Judges’ Motion: “A clearer case of bad faith litigation conduct would be difficult to make.”

Judge Michael Groch and Family Justice Center Alliance members disclaim any collaboration

Judge Michael Groch and Family Justice Center Alliance members deny collaboration.

“It was recognized that certain members of the judiciary were instruments of oppression and were partially responsible for the wrongs to be remedied. The parade of cases coming to this Court shows that a similar condition now obtains in some of the States. Some state courts have been instruments of suppression of civil rights. The methods may have changed; the means may have become more subtle; but the wrong to be remedied still exists.”

–         Pierson v. Ray, 386 U.S. 547 (1967)

Maybe some things really never change.

It’s a good thing one of them is truth.  And we’ve been up to no good lately pointing that out to, well, judges who can’t seem to fish it out of a “bucket of mud.”

We’re here to help. In their recently filed motion to dismiss CCFC’s federal racketeering lawsuit, judges Robert Trentacosta, Lisa Schall, Lorna Alksne, Christine Goldsmith, Jeannie Lowe, William McAdam, Edlene McKenzie, and Joel Wohlfeil disclaim any association, affiliation, or support with the San Diego Family Law Community–including the County Bar, the Family Law Subsection, the City of San Diego’s in-house domestic dispute advocacy program-the San Diego Family Justice Center, the Family Law Facilitator’s Offices, or the court’s own in-house trained, supervised, and appointed psychological evaluator enterprise, including Stephen Doyne, Lori Love, and Robert Simon.  “No affiliation whatsoever” the judges’ lawyers Mattew Green and James Gilpin of Best, Best & Krieger claim.

We responded on Friday November 8, 2013 with an Opposition and motion to strike of our own, and exhibits in support.

Some highlights below.

The Superior Court’s “move along nothing here to see” command came in the form of a motion to dismiss CCFC’s federal lawsuit alleging Racketeering and civil rights crimes against hundreds of thousands of county residents.

Great minds at work here–perhaps our county’s most proclaimed jurists. What legal rationale did they use to ask the District Court to throw the lawsuit out?

“It’s a bucket of mud”

“Defendants, with some prolixity, assail the Complaint as “incomprehensible rambling” (MTD 1, 10:2), “of the magnitude of War and Peace” (MTD 2), “bucket of mud,” “sprawling,” “incomprehensible,” “confusing, distracting, ambiguous, and unintelligible” (MTD 9), “confusing and conclusory” (MTD 10), and that a reader must “try to fish a gold coin from a bucket of mud[,]”.  Yet the Complaint’s length and complexity cannot be accused as a defect of pleading; the statutes it is brought under are notoriously complex and perhaps confusing even to the accomplished jurists present in this litigation. ”

“One civil rights conspiracy statute asserted, 42 U.S.C. § 1985(1), (2), and (3) is drafted as a single sentence of 590 words in six paragraphs. It has been generously assailed by Justice John Paul Stevens as “somewhat difficult to parse.” Kush v. Rutledge, 460 U.S. 719, 724, 103 S. Ct. 1483, 1486, 75 L. Ed. 2d 413 (1983).  RICO too has been bewailed as “arcane,” “tormented,” “complicated,” “agonizingly difficult” and “fraught with arcane mysteries.” Bryant v. Yellow Freight Sys., 989 F. Supp. 966, 968 (N.D. Ill. 1997); Macy’s E., Inc. v. Emergency Envtl. Servs., Inc., 925 F. Supp. 191, 193 (S.D.N.Y. 1996) (“arcane eccentricities of RICO jurisprudence”); Combs v. Bakker, 886 F.2d 673, 677 (4th Cir. 1989) (a “tormented statute”); Sadighi v. Daghighfekr, 36 F. Supp. 2d 267 (D.S.C. 1999) (noting statute’s “torment”); Tafflin v. Levitt, 493 U.S. 455, 465 (1990); Cent. Distribs. of Beer [,] Inc. v. Conn., 5 F.3d 181, 184 (6th Cir. 1993) (“one of the most complex statutes ever enacted by Congress”); Jennings v. Emry, 910 F.2d 1434, 1435 (7th Cir. 1990) (“a complex statute”); Murray v. Midwest Real Estate Inv. Co., No. 98C1569, 1998 WL 919694, at *2 (N.D. Ill. Dec. 30, 1998) (“exceedingly complicated”).

Without doubt, the asserted statutes are complex—honed power tools to enable citizens to combat collusion by public and private officers wielding the devastating potential of state police power and private wealth to leverage racketeering and civil rights crimes.”

If that doesn’t work, they have a fall-back:

“We’re judges–we’re immune from these charges!”

Well, since they think that’s the case, it certainly explains a lot, but sorry to say the United States Congress and United States Supreme Court disagree:

“Like the complex criminal enterprises RICO and the civil rights statutes are intended to extinguish, the Complaint is by design complex.  The “heavy artillery of federal law” RICO mechanisms are targeted to combat only complex organizations.  United States v. Frega, 179 F.3d 793, 800 (9th Cir. 1999)). The statement of findings that prefaces the Organized Crime Control Act of 1970 reveals that Congress enacted RICO to redress “a highly sophisticated, diversified, and widespread activity that annually drains billions of dollars from America’s economy by unlawful conduct and the illegal use of force, fraud, and corruption” using “social exploitation” deriving “money and power . . . increasingly used to infiltrate and corrupt legitimate business . . . and to subvert and corrupt our democratic processes.” The breadth of the “organized crime activities in the United States weaken the stability of the Nation’s economic system, harm innocent investors and competing organizations, interfere with free competition, seriously burden interstate and foreign commerce, threaten the domestic security, and undermine the general welfare of the Nation and its citizens.” Congress intended RICO to supplement state laws under which “organized crime continues to grow because of defects in the evidence-gathering process of the law inhibiting the development of the legally admissible evidence necessary to bring criminal and other sanctions or remedies to bear on the unlawful activities of those engaged in organized crime and because the sanctions and remedies available to the Government are unnecessarily limited in scope and impact. 84 Stat. 922–923.” U.S. v. Turkette, 452 U.S. 576, 588-89 (1981). ”

“Four decades of caselaw have confirmed Congress’ intent that RICO is not targeted toward mom-n-pop backroom scams, but to inoculate erstwhile legitimate enterprises, including unions, public corporations, mass market retailers, and public institutions such as law enforcement, political office, and the courts—including one case identifying Defendant San Diego Superior Court itself.  See, e.g., H.J. Inc. v. Nw. Bell Tel. Co., 492 U.S. 229, 243, 109 S. Ct. 2893, 2903, 106 L. Ed. 2d 195 (1989) (telecommunications corporations); Nat’l Org. for Women, Inc. v. Scheidler, 510 U.S. 249, 260, 114 S. Ct. 798, 805, 127 L. Ed. 2d 99 (1994) (civil rights organizations); Odom v. Microsoft Corp., 486 F.3d 541, 546 (9th Cir. 2007) (Microsoft Corporation and Best Buy software retailing operations); Vierria v. California Highway Patrol, 644 F. Supp. 2d 1219, 1240 (E.D. Cal. 2009); Dow Chem. Co. v. Exxon Corp., 30 F. Supp. 2d 673, 694 (D. Del. 1998); U.S. v. Angelilli, 660 F.2d 23 (2d Cir. 1981) (civil courts); United States v. Frega, 179 F.3d 793 (1999) (the “San Diego Superior Court”).”

Other judges agree:

“It does indeed go without saying that an official, who is in fact guilty of using his powers to vent his spleen upon others, or for any other personal motive not connected with the public good, should not escape liability for the injuries he may so cause; and, if it were possible in practice to confine such complaints to the guilty, it would be monstrous to deny recovery.”

– Gregoire v. Biddle, 177 F.2d 579, 581 (2d Cir. 1949)

“This Court has never suggested that the policy considerations which compel civil immunity for certain governmental officials also place them beyond the reach of the criminal law. Even judges, cloaked with absolute civil immunity for centuries, could be punished criminally for willful deprivations of constitutional rights on the strength of 18 U.S.C. § 242, the criminal analog of § 1983.”

– Imbler v. Pachtman, 424 U.S. 409, 429 (1976)

And it’s not just judges that want to be excused from criminal behavior, they say also their staff.

“Our Court Executive Officer, Michael Roddy, is just like a judge, so he doesn’t have to follow the law either.”

CCFC Responds:

“Defendant RODDY claims quasi-judicial immunity (MTD IV.E), yet such a defense is clearly unavailable. RODDY is an administrator, not a judicial official, and the allegations of the Complaint do not allege any acts by RODDY requiring judicial discretion, application of facts to law, or acts intimately involved with the judicial process. Whatever Mr. Roddy’s general responsibilities as an administrator of the Superior Court operations may be, the Complaint alleges his responsibility for a private commercial forensic psychology enterprise and the family law facilitator, domestic violence clinics and paperwork, and related court operations.  Compl. ¶¶ 11, 12, 23, 94, 96, 140, 275, 281, 318, Count 5, ENTERPRISES 1-4.  These are not “tasks [which] are an essential part of the operation of the courts and the judicial process.” (MTD 12:9).  See, Forrester, Antoine, Zolin, supra; Pomerantz v. County of Los Angeles, 674 F.2d 1288, 1291 (9th Cir.1982).  To the extent that RODDY’S “precise acts” accused in the Complaint are within RODDY’S job description, they are administrative functions, possibly authorized, and therefore possibly eligible for a qualified immunity not relevant at this stage. ”

The Complaint also names the Family Justice Center, The County of San Diego, the Family Law Facilitator’s Offices, and the Administrative Office of the Courts, for collaborating with the judges themselves in illegal activity. The judge’s response?

“We’re not related” “Completely independent”

We found otherwise:

“To plead to these statutes, the Complaint must detail the complex and diverse duties, acts, and enterprises harming plaintiffs and impacting a wide class of U.S. citizens numbering in the millions.  The Complaint asserts 32 distinct civil causes of action and 32 related indictable federal felonies, 27 categories of “predicate crimes” and 13 RICO Claims for Relief, based on seven “Schemes and Artifices to Defraud” under nine federal mail, wire, bank, and honest services fraud criminal statutes, including related obstruction of justice, and witness tampering and retaliation.  It asserts two counts for prospective relief including a Motion for a Harassment Restraining Order and requests to enjoin enforcement of an entire body of unconstitutional family and criminal law.  The Complaint names 49 distinct public and private entities comprising a nationwide Domestic Dispute Industry Criminal Enterprise (“DDICE”). Even counsel experienced in this rapidly-evolving body of federal civil and criminal law would be understandably paused to comprehend the Complaint’s necessary depth and complexity.”

“It is no fault of Defendants that, despite their relative acumen in the law, they did not immediately grasp the gravity of the statutes posed against them.  Their refusal to pause to comprehend that message before insulting its messenger is far less innocent.”

“But WE didn’t DO anything! Blame someone else!”

Judges consistently deny any responsibility for the treachery of divorce lawyers, psychologists, and others, claiming they “see nothing!”  Is that an excuse?  According to one of our nation’s most respected legal minds–clearly “no.”  Judge Richard Posner from the United States Court of Appeals for the 7th Circuit has explained that when a government actor places a citizen in harms way such as, for example, ordering them to purchase the services of a fraudulent psychologist, or requiring them to hire unethical lawyers to access courts, they are just as liable as a tortfeasor who caused the harm.  Judge Posner writes:

“We do not want to pretend that the line between action and inaction, between inflicting and failing to prevent the infliction of harm, is clearer than it is. If the state puts a man in a position of danger from private persons and then fails to protect him, it will not be heard to say that its role was merely passive; it is as much an active tortfeasor as if it had thrown him into a snake pit.”

If one factor is uniform in a continuing series of events that are brought to pass through human intervention, the law would have to have the blindness of indifference rather than the blindness of impartiality not to attribute the uniform factor to man’s purpose. The purpose may not be of evil intent or in conscious disregard of what is conceived to be a binding duty. Prohibited conduct may result from misconception of what duty requires.”
–  Cassell v. Texas, 339 U.S. 282, 293 (1950) (Frankfurter, J., concurring)

“The Complaint ignores the Rules–Throw it out!”

Family Court judges attacked the Complaint for failing to follow the rules of civil procedure. They brought a motion, but their motion itself cited law that didn’t apply to the very motion they brought.  They filed fraudlent declarations as if they were presumed to be true.  They submitted evidence given on perjury from another Family Court operative.  I guess they’re accustomed to having their way–law be damned.  Most lawyers would be embarrassed to file papers so off base.  But who wants a reputation as an intelligent lawyer in Family Court when that’s exactly the sort of behavior gets you thrown in jail?

CCFC’s Response:

“[Family Court] Defendants have attempted to introduce immaterial, impertinent, controversial, scandalous, and inadmissible evidence in support of a motion that cannot weigh evidence.  They have submitted a perjurous declaration and foundationless, incomplete, and potentially fraudulent documents—via a request for judicial notice.  They have misunderstood and misrepresented “capacity” and “standing” under both state and federal law. The have requested the wrong relief under the wrong authority. They have refused Plaintiff’s efforts toward informal resolution by withdrawal of the errant pleadings and exhibits, and refused stipulations to resolve pleading matters which are properly and regularly resolved by leave to amend, forcing unnecessary pleading in opposition.”

“Given the lack of merit to the MTD, Plaintiff submits that the MTD was filed to continue the pattern of HARRASSMENT and ABUSE, to cause unnecessary delay, and needlessly increase the litigation costs to Plaintiffs—a pattern identified in the Complaint as HARRASSMENT and ABUSE and demonstrated to be ongoing in the Ex Parte Application for Leave to File a Motion for Harassment Restraining Order (Dkt#4).  Plaintiffs are a parents and children rights and support organization and their advocates who have fallen victim to defendants—an insubordinated Domestic Dispute Industry preying on parents and children through abuse of public resources by private criminal enterprises detailed in the Complaint.  The MTD is but the latest in what will be proven to be a grotesque and shameful abuse of state law police power and color of law authority.”

“A clearer case for failure to reasonably investigate claims and avoidance of bad faith litigation conduct, harassment, delay, and unreasonable inquiry sanctions would be difficult to make.”

“Honor and shame from no condition rise.
Act well your part: there all the honor lies.”
– Alexander Pope

The Family Court judges’ legacy lies before them. Will it be shame through defeat, shame through victory, or honor through obedience to the trust that binds us all?

Our November 22 hearing has been continued to December 19, 2013.   We’ll keep you posted.

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